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The first-time homebuyer guide

Everything you actually need to know, in plain English, from a broker who has closed loans in Northern Kentucky and Cincinnati for 23 years. Jump in anywhere, this guide is built to be skimmed, searched, or read end-to-end.

Step one

Are you financially ready?

Four concrete checks before you start touring homes. If three of the four are solid, you're ready; if two are close, we can usually bridge the gap with a 30-60 day plan.

580+
Minimum for FHA

Credit score 580 or better

580+ opens FHA. 620+ unlocks conventional. 680+ gets meaningfully better pricing. Below 580 is workable, we'll tell you the specific steps to improve.

3%
Minimum down on conventional

3% to 5% saved for down payment

On a $250,000 home that's $7,500 to $12,500. VA and USDA buyers can do zero down. Gift funds from family are eligible on most programs.

2 yrs
W-2 or SE history

Steady income for 2 years

W-2 employees need 2 years at the same employer (or in the same industry). Self-employed buyers need 2 years of tax returns. Job gaps under 30 days are fine.

< 50%
Target DTI

Debt-to-income under 50%

Your total monthly debt (including the new mortgage) divided by gross monthly income. FHA allows up to 57%; conventional caps around 50%. We compute it for you.

Bust these first

Five down-payment myths costing first-time buyers

Bad information is the single biggest reason otherwise-qualified first-time buyers don't buy for another 2-3 years than they needed to.

Myth
I need 20% down to buy a home
Reality

Most first-time buyers put 3% to 5% down. 20% is only needed to avoid private mortgage insurance (PMI) on a conventional loan, not to qualify. PMI adds $80-$200/month but is often worth it vs waiting years to save 20%.

Myth
PMI is a scam I should never pay
Reality

PMI lets you buy sooner with less cash down. On a conventional loan, it automatically drops off at 78% loan-to-value (usually 5-8 years in at typical appreciation). You can also request removal at 80% LTV. The math often favors buying with PMI over renting another 3 years saving for 20% down.

Myth
Gift money from family isn't allowed
Reality

Gift funds are fully eligible on FHA (100% of down payment), conventional (first-time buyer programs), and VA. A signed gift letter from the donor is required. Many first-time NKY buyers use partial gifts from parents or grandparents.

Myth
I should pay off all my debt before buying
Reality

Not always. Paying down debt helps DTI, but emptying savings to do it hurts your cash-to-close and reserves. We model both paths when there's meaningful debt, sometimes keeping the debt and buying now wins financially.

Myth
Pre-approval damages my credit
Reality

A pre-approval requires a hard credit pull, which takes a few points off temporarily (usually 2-5) and recovers within a couple months. Multiple mortgage inquiries within a 45-day window count as a single pull for scoring purposes, so shop around without fear.

How it goes, step by step, week by week

The 8-step first-time buyer process

Start to finish, most first-time buyers are keys-in-hand within 60-90 days. Every step below shows what actually happens and when, the mortgage itself (accepted offer to closing) usually runs 22-25 days.

  1. Week 0

    Get your number (pre-approval)

    A 15-minute call + a secure doc upload gets you a real pre-approval letter. We pull credit, verify income, and tell you exactly what you qualify for. Letter in 24-48 hours.

    Start with Lee
  2. Week 1

    Find your agent

    If you don't have a Realtor, we'll introduce you to one we trust. A good agent is free to you (seller pays the commission) and critical for first-timers.

  3. Weeks 1-4

    Shop with your budget locked in

    Tour homes with your agent. Stay at or below the price we pre-approved you for. Most first-time buyers look for 2-4 weeks and write 1-3 rounds of offers before acceptance.

    Run the numbers
  4. Day 1 of contract

    Make an offer

    Your agent writes the offer with your pre-approval letter attached. Earnest money (1-2% of purchase price) goes into escrow. We're on call that day if sellers or their agents have lender questions.

  5. Day 3-10

    Inspection

    Inspector walks the home. Major issues can be renegotiated, credited back, or used to walk away without losing earnest money. Never skip this, even on new construction.

  6. Day 7-22

    Appraisal and underwriting

    Lender orders an appraisal to confirm value. Underwriter reviews your file against program guidelines. Most of the "hurry up and wait" lives here, 15-20 days typical. May request additional docs.

  7. Day 22-25

    Clear to close

    Underwriter signs off. Closing disclosure is sent 3 business days before closing (federally required). You wire your cash-to-close the morning of signing.

  8. Closing day

    Keys

    Sign papers at the title company. Seller typically vacates 1-3 days prior or same day. Keys hit your hand. Congratulations, you own a home.

Avoid these

Six mistakes we see kill deals

Every single one of these has derailed a first-time purchase in our office. They're the most preventable reasons closings fall apart.

Opening a new credit card mid-process

Any new credit activity between application and closing can derail underwriting. Don't open cards, don't finance furniture, don't co-sign anything until after keys are in hand.

Changing jobs or income structure

Switching from W-2 to self-employed mid-process usually kills the loan. A W-2-to-W-2 switch in the same field can work but needs extra documentation. Talk to us first.

Making large cash deposits

Cash deposits over $1,000 or so raise sourcing questions. Everything going into your account during the process should be traceable. Gift funds need a letter and are fine; untraceable cash is not.

Skipping the inspection

Never. Even on new construction. Inspections are $400-$600 and have saved buyers $5,000-$50,000 over and over. Use your inspection contingency.

Maxing out your pre-approval

Just because we approved you for $400,000 doesn't mean that's where you should shop. Budget for the payment you're comfortable making, not the top dollar you qualify for.

Waiving contingencies in a hot market

Sellers in competitive markets sometimes pressure buyers to waive financing or inspection contingencies. Don't. Strong offers win by price, earnest money, and closing terms, not by giving up your safety nets.

Speak the language

A plain-English glossary

The 10 terms every first-time buyer ends up Googling.

APR
Annual Percentage Rate. Your interest rate plus fees, expressed as a yearly cost. Compare APRs when shopping offers.
Closing Costs
All the one-time fees to complete the loan: lender fees, title insurance, escrow, first year of homeowners insurance, a few months of taxes held in escrow, and prepaid interest. Typically 2-3% of purchase price.
DTI
Debt-to-Income ratio. Your total monthly debt (including the new mortgage) divided by gross monthly income.
Earnest Money
The deposit (typically 1-2% of purchase price) you put into escrow when your offer is accepted. Applied to your cash-to-close; forfeit only if you breach contract.
Escrow
(Two meanings.) 1) A neutral third-party account holding earnest money during contract. 2) Monthly escrow on your mortgage payment: taxes and insurance collected with P&I and held by the lender.
HOA
Homeowners Association. Common in condos and planned communities. Dues and restrictions apply; affects your DTI.
LTV
Loan-to-Value. Loan amount divided by appraised value. 95% LTV means 5% down.
PITI
Principal, Interest, Taxes, and Insurance, the four components of your monthly mortgage payment. Includes PMI when applicable.
PMI
Private Mortgage Insurance. Required on conventional loans with less than 20% down. Drops off automatically at 78% LTV.
Points
Prepaid interest paid at closing to lower your rate. One point = 1% of the loan amount. Worth it if you'll keep the loan long enough to break even.
First-time buyer FAQ

10 questions we hear every week

  • Less than most people think. FHA requires 3.5% down. Conventional first-time-buyer programs go as low as 3%. VA and USDA can be zero down. Plus closing costs (typically 2-3% of purchase price), though sellers often cover some of those. On a $250,000 home, a realistic cash-to-close budget for an FHA buyer is roughly $13,000-$16,000 before any seller concessions.

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